Saturday, November 7, 2015

I had a 'world whisperer' experience.

Some of you might think it meaningless but I felt a tinge of hope.

There is someone on our email list that is from Joe's high school.  He sends us MANY emails that go to over 100 people.  I try not to read them as they are usually the exact opposite of what I think and believe.

For some reason, however, I decided to read one recently.

It spoke of our president's "Muslim Mafia" and listed 31 things that proved he was Muslim.

OOOOKAAAAY.

I knew that they were embellished but decided to actually fact check many.

As I suspected, they were false.

I didn't know if I should just ignore this or share the findings or WHAT?

I just knew that it felt wrong to do nothing.

I respectfully replied that I had found many of the statements to be unfounded and shared the sites that I used and then asked him to please remove me from the list.

I am not going to share here what the reply to me was....

...or the reply from some others' on the list.

Suffice it to say, it was pretty combative...even scary...and I am NOT easily scared...at all!

 I simply decided to remove myself from the whole thing so as not to be a part of the brokenness....

...BUT,the original sender emailed and asked that I not respond to 'all' because these folk were clearly not of my same thinking and it was upsetting them.   He said that they were members of a fraternity and most were on a different 'side' than I was.

I immediately responded saying that I can see why that would be disconcerting to them and had I known it was a fraternity list, I would not have replied to 'all'.   He/they could rest assured that I would not message again to this group.

I also explained that my reply was not meant to choose a 'side'.  I actually did the same when people were bashing Bush with untruths.

Rather than a 'side', I seek to find the TRUTH  which, in this day and age of immediate info 24/7, is VERY hard to do.

He responded MUCH more respectfully this time which is what moved me to meander.

This guy is a 'shoot and shout' kinda' guy but, by the end, he apologized for the 'shoot and shout' messages I received from his frat buddies and he thanked me for honoring his request.

He even said he was going to try to be more intentional about who/what/where he got his info.

 I am not naive enough to think this man is going to change his politics or stop sending messages that support his 'side'.

BUT, I DO believe that because we had RESPECTFUL dialogue, there was a tiny tiny step taken.

Which is why I wanted to share it here.

Makes me wanna' keep reminding myself to stay respectful, seek truth...


....and keep on 'world whispering'!

3 comments:

Fiesty redhead said...

I have always found it interesting and upsetting that those who seem to shout the "truth" are very antagonistic when either the "untruth" is pointed out to them, or the inconsistency in one of their "facts" is noted. I'm glad you found a ray of hope - gives me some :)

Your little sister :)

Fiesty redhead said...

See above

cjb said...

It means much to me that you even read these...and that you remember the 'little sister' times...bless!!!!